I purchased a white candle from a shop in town, I told the woman it was to get a woman back in my life, she carved a pentagram on the top and poured oil into it. She told me to write my wishes on paper and put it under the candle on Friday then let the candle burn. Is this accurate? I don’t want to damage any thing plus I have other spell work going. I was read that doing things yourself helps things a lot.