break up spell?

Hey everybody my name's Diego and I'm entirely new to this forum but I just recently signed up with the name elmen13. I'm just waiting for the approval.

I'm actually really glad I found this forum since everyone here sounds really helpful and I found this site while looking for reviews for this spellcaster that I'm planning to try out called Lilith from liliths-lair.com. Don't know if anyone here has used her.

Anyway apart from that, there was a spell-related question that I'm stressed over about. I was hoping that you guys could maybe offer some opinions/advice on my question since its based on magick in general with my situation. I'm gonna explain my story as simple and short as I can.

So just like many others here, I'm also looking for a spell that can me bring my ex back after she gave up on me and left because of the stupid and unintentional mistake i made of not giving her the enough attention and affection she deserved. It was a misunderstanding though because I was giving her her space but it gave her the impression that I didn't feel anything romantically towards her. I never wanted to hurt her and I never have before.

But anyway basically that was it, we had strong feelings for each other but she lost interest in me after I started doing that to her. I still care too much for her though and I want her to give me a second chance to do things right again and make her happy. So I turned to love spells to see if they can me out. I've never felt so sure and so determined in my life to want her back as I am now.

Anyway my question was (sorry I got carried away with that other stuff):
I already have in mind a "bring back ex" love spell from Lilith but since its been about 3 weeks since we last spoke and, haven't had any contact after that, do you guys think it would be a good idea to ALSO order a "break them up" spell JUST IN CASE she meets another guy while I wait for the other first spell to manifest?

Its because that's what I keep stressing about. That if I order a love spell towards my ex, that it'll fail because of obstacles like a new guy coming into her life.

So it's not that I don't believe in magick and spells, it's just that I'm feeling negative because I feel that the longer I wait, the higher chances get of new obstacles coming up against any spell I order. But I'm just wanted to know if it would be a good idea to order a break up spell JUST IN case an obstacle like that comes up.

Thanks for hearing me out guys and I hope someone can offer some advice. I'd appreciate any answers. I'm planning on ordering this Wednesday. And then Valentine's day is in 3 weeks so who knows what'll happen with her.